Today i saw the movie cyber bully(4/19/12) with emily osment....it was an ok movie, the best part was near the end when emily stood up to her bullies as well as a couple of other people. So after seeing this movie and reaing about some young kids who committed suicide because of the cyber bulying and at school it juss sadeness me because of how these kids let these bullies just pushed them to the edge of killing themselves. People need to realize that they will go through hardships and trials, and if one learns about Allah and gets to know Him you would be strong in your charachter and have so much fear that you would be afraid of even thinking about commiting such an act and as we all should know, that suicide in Islam is haram. If you kill yourself in this world, you would be doing in the hereafter over, and over, and over again and it will NEVER stop. So don't give up hope on Allah. Be strong! Be confident in who you are. Be a proud muslim.
Build your self-esteem up so when others attack you or hardships arise you will be able to face them and not take the easy way out by committing suicide. Suicide is NOT the answer....Talk to Allah, get some help and have a few friends that u can trust, but dont tell everybody everything because this can backfire on you. So becareful inshAllah.
Don't try and impress others just because you don't fit in, it's NOT worth it.
Bullies are unkewl ppl who have nothing better to do than to mess with you. All that time they invest in bringing you down just goes to show you how LAME they really are, and if these are the same people you idolize, how come you allow them to hurt you? And the irony is that they must also love you since they talk about you sooooo much yet they have to be mean in order to express how much they care. By you taking your life, only proves that they win because you either didnt have the power to do something about it nor the self-esteem to move on. I'm not saying this be to harsh, but for people to look at it another angle.
I may not understand the reality of extreme bullying where people just constantly on your case trying to break you down. Sweethearts understand you NEED to fight throught the clutter you hear and see everyday. When classmates bully you, online people tease you, your best friends have left your side, people not taking you seriously, etc. Sometimes when you feel like no one else is on yourside you may have to fight your battles, don't always look for someone to fight them for you except Allah. Bullying is just about lame people who pick on others for their voids in their life and take it out on others who seem vulnerable and they target them for their anger, sadness, hopelessness. etc. FOr example, a bully may pick on an intelligent stupid, because the bully may not be as smart as the intelligent kid so he picks on them and thinks he/she can get away with it? WROOOOONG! Those bullies have it coming to them in this world and the next. A bully may pick on a big person calling them fat, when the bully is in their late 40's or sooner they may be experiencing some weight gain because of thier bullying on a person who was big. Anyway, you get the picture. the point is to be strong about it. This is something you will have to learn, go get help, pray about it, talk to your parents, etc. It helps to have a support system. ALSO, DO NOT TAKE YOUR LIFE BECAUSE SOMEONE BULLIES YOU. THIS IS NOT A WISE DECISION. PLEASE DO NOT GIVE UP, YOU'RE NOT ALONE. JUST LOOK INSIDE YOURSELF AND FIND YOUR INNER STRENGTH TO MOVE PAST THE BULLYING.
TO ALL BULLIES: STOP BULLYING OTHERS. IF ONLY YOU CAN COMPREHEND HOW YOU WORDS AND ACTIONS CAN AFFECT THE PEOPLE IN WHICH YOU BULLY. WHATEVER ISSUES THAT YOU ARE HAVING WITHIN YOURSELF OR WITH OTHERS, PLEASE GO GET HELP. IT IS NOT FUNNY BREAKING OTHERS DOWN. WHY ARE YOU BULLYING OTHERS? WHAT ARE YOU GAINING? POPULARITY? CONTROL? SELF-ESTEEM? A ROLE MODEL? LARGE EGO? WHO ARE YOU KIDDING, YOU ARE JUST LYING TO YOURSELF AND YOU NEED TO WAKE UP AND LIVE IN REALITY. SO STOP YOUR IGNORANCE AND ENCOURAGING OTHERS TO DO IT TO, BECAUSE IT IS NOT NICE, AND YOU WILL REGRET IT. SO QUIT WHILE YOU ARE AHEAD. JUST SAY NO TO BULLYING.
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