There will be times where we have conflict in the houses such as disagreements, argumentaion, frustration, and sisters being upset about it, but there is a way to handle these things. So let's reflect about these sayings.
Hadith - Sunan of Abu Dawood, Narrated Atiyyah as-Sa'di, r.a.
AbuWa'il al-Qass said: We entered upon Urwah ibn Muhammad ibn as-Sa'di. A man spoke to him and made him angry. So he stood and performed ablution; he then returned and performed ablution, and said: My father told me on the authority of my grandfather Atiyyah who reported the Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) as saying: Anger comes from the devil, the devil was created of fire, and fire is extinguished only with water; so when one of you becomes angry, he should perform ablution.
Hadith - Sunan of Abu Dawood, Narrated Abu Dharr, r.a.
The Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) said to us: When one of you becomes angry while standing, he should sit down. If the anger leaves him, well and good; otherwise he should lie down.
Also......
Be slow to anger and quick to cool down.
When angry, make wudu to "cool off."
When someone near you is furious, say "Audthu billahi mina shaitaan nir rajeem" (I seek refuge in Allah from the rejected/outcast satan).
If you are angry with someone, sit down. If that does not work, lie down.
http://muttaqun.com/anger.html
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